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Weekly HOMILY for December 1, 2013: 1st Sunday of Advent, Cycle A -- Darters, Strollers, and Those Who Heed

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1st Sunday of Advent, Cycle A
Terranuova Hermitage
December 1, 2013

Darters, Strollers, and Those Who Heed
By (Rev. Msgr.) Nicholas P. Amato

 


Darters and Strollers


Well, here we are, in the busiest shopping days of the year.

Several years ago, I read some comments by an author named Robert Winters.  He makes some observations about the shopping malls at Christmas.

Winters says that in a mall these days, there is one narrowly missed collision after another.  He describes two kinds of shoppers, and I think we can easily imagine them.

First, there are the darters.  These people are walking along and then suddenly something catches their eye.

The darters immediately change direction and dart over to look at a Keurig coffee maker or a Hollister shirt or whatever it is.  They move so quickly that you have to put on the brakes real fast to avoid bumping into them.

And then there the strollers.  These people walk like a bridal party slowly making their way down the aisle.

The strollers are just strolling along, taking in each piece of merchandise.  They are captivated by everything.     

Robert Winters says that the darters and the strollers have one thing in common.  Both of them are so wrapped in the things they are seeing that they are unmindful and not heeding the other shoppers around them.

Today’s Gospel

These observations about darters and strollers help us to appreciate today’s gospel.

Jesus is talking about his second coming and he refers back to the time of Noah.  He says: “In those days people were eating and drinking and marrying, up to the day Noah entered the ark. 

“They knew nothing until the flood came and swept them away.  So will it be at the coming of the Son of Man.”

Now there is nothing wrong with eating and drinking and getting married.  So why were these people swept away?

Jesus gives the answer.  He says: “Two men will be out in the field; one will be taken and one will be left.

“Two women will be grinding meal; one will be taken and one will be left.”  Notice: those who are taken and ready for the Lord will not be doing anything different in terms of their occupation or activity.

Everyone will be busy with the things of life.  But those who are ready for the Lord will be doing these things in a different way.

They will be what I will call “heeders” – spelled H-E-E-D-E-R-S.  They will be heeding both God and those around them as they do their things in life.

Heeders

Practically speaking, what might it mean to be a heeder rather than a darter or a stroller?

Heeders reserve some time each day for prayer.  They maintain some inner space for quiet, for being in touch with God.

In this way, heeders remain aware of the spiritual.  They see all the items and decorations as good but remain aware that only our relationship with God brings happiness and fulfillment in the long run.

Heeders also probably try to grow in their faith.  They don’t stay stuck in the understanding of God that they learned as children.

Heeders are awake to what God is saying to them personally, today in the gospels.  They are awake to new possibilities maybe about God’s unconditional love or about our response of social justice, things like that.

Heeders carefully reserve time for their husband or wife or children or close friend.  They are not submerged in their job or self-absorbed in some way.

Heeders are attentive to persons, the important persons in their lives and those they are with at any given moment.  They stay attentive to persons as making up what life is really all about.

And heeders care for those in need.  They don’t blame the poor for their plight.

Heeders are alert to the pain of the sick, to the suffering of the depressed, or the desperation of the hungry or homeless.  They are alert to Jesus being present in these persons.

Conclusion

So, the message today: don’t be a darter or a stroller.  Don’t be just wrapped up and absorbed in the material things of the season.

Instead, be a heeder.  We may be doing some of the same things as everyone else, but remain aware, awake, attentive, and alert to what really matters.