Tuesday, July 25, 2017

HOMILY for July 9, 2017: 14th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Cycle A


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14th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Cycle A
Aisling Retreat House
Manchester, Maryland
July 9, 2017
Of Yokes and Ploughing
By (Rev. Msgr.) Nicholas P. Amato



The Amish and Jesus


The Amish farms in York and Lancaster Counties in Pennsylvania often present a warm and pastoral picture for us.

The Amish farmers work their fields with horses.  Since there is no use of combustion engines, you’ll never see any John Deere farm equipment.

Instead, you’ll find two horses pulling a plough.  In Jesus’ day, it was very much the same.

However, they used oxen to plough the fields, not horses.  And the oxen were yoked, that is, two were bound together at their shoulders by something called a yoke – spelled Y-O-K-E. 

The double yoke was a wooden collar that fit around the necks of both oxen and connected them to the plough.  The yoke had to be made carefully so that it would fit the oxen just right and not hurt or create bruises. 

If the yoke fit well and was comfortable, the oxen could go on ploughing for hours, but if it did not fit well, it would dig into the animals keep them from working.

Obviously, it would sap their strength and they would diminish their ploughing time.  This then, is the image that Jesus has in mind in today’s gospel.   

“My yoke is easy”


Jesus says, “My yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

So I am thinking: how can the yoke of Jesus be easy?  Can we really say that living the way he calls us to live is easy?

Practically speaking, (1) Is it easy to love our enemies and to turn the other cheek?  (2) Is it easy to forgive seventy times seven times, and (3) Is it easy to share what we have with people who are in need and whom we do not even know?

And add to that, Jesus makes it clear that following him means taking up our cross?  So it seems to me to be a bit of a stretch to him to say that, “My yoke is easy?”

Why Is It Easy?


Maybe the best way to evaluate how difficult or easy it is to live the way of Jesus is to compare his style of living with other styles of living.

For example, (1) Do we really think that a dog-eat-dog approach to life is easier on our nerves than working together and caring for the well-being of everyone?  (2) Are we better off emotionally by holding on to our resentment rather than forgiving?

Again, (3) Is war really more beneficial than diplomacy and compromise – an important point to think about right now with North Korea?  (4) Is it easier to fall asleep at night trusting in the stock market rather than trusting in God’s providence in our lives?

Again, (5) Do we feel inner peace by going along with whatever looks like fun or by sticking to what we believe is morally right?  (6) Does it make me feel better about myself when I look down upon others I live or work with and judge them as less or when I refrain from judgment and instead put myself in their skin and life situation? 

(7) Does racial, religious, or gender prejudice expand me as a person, or am I bigger as a person when I am open and try to understand and include?  And finally, (8) Is it really easier to live with myself when I don’t tell the truth or when I truthfully own up to what I did or did not do?

Conclusion


Jesus assures us today that his “yoke is easy” and his “burden is light.”


He is gently, but clearly calling us to try his way of living.  And if we do, we just might find that it contributes more to our happiness in the long run and is even lighter in the short run of living.

Thursday, June 29, 2017

HOMILY for June 25, 2017: 12th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Cycle A


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12th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Cycle A
June 25, 2017
8:00 am St. Mary’s, Pylesville
11:00 am St. Matthew’s
Encouragement
By (Rev. Msgr.) Nicholas P. Amato


 

Killing the Spirit


This morning, I want to talk about encouragement – the importance of encouraging one another.

In today’s Gospel, Jesus tells us to beware – in fact, to be afraid of those who can kill the spirit. And you probably know from your own experience that it is true. Our spirit can be killed.

We’ve seen it on sports teams, where the coach is always on the back of the players – often kids – for every dropped ball or missed point and never praises the players for their progress.  They can kill the spirit of a player.

This killing of the spirit happens with employees on work teams where a supervisor is always pressing for more and better results and never affirming the results that are there. 

This killing of the spirit happens at home when a husband or wife is always picking at what the other has not done well, without every affirming a good job that was done mowing the lawn, or preparing a meal, things like that.

We’ve seen it in schools and neighborhoods where a child is being bullied, being called names and being shunned. or refusing to play with her. 

A Study on Encouragement

Recently, an organization called the Gotman Institute did a study that focused on the ratio of words of criticism versus words of encouragement that the average person hears.  They found that the ratio is 6 to 1.

Imagine, the average person hears 6 words of criticism for every 1 word of encouragement.  Just tghink about that – isn’t that unfortunate and sad?

All that criticism creates an oppressive, negative, environment.  It explains why some teams, workplaces, and relationships are so toxic.

These words tear down self-esteem and self-worth.  To return to Jesus’ words in the Gospel, this heavy ratio of critical to encouraging words can “kill the spirit.”

Two truths about Encouragement

There are two truths about encouragment that we need to know.

First, everyone is hungry for encouragement.  I don’t care who you are, how successful, intelligent, attractive, popular, or talented you are – we all need encouragement.

This is a basic truth.  It is part of our humanity.

And the second truth is that everyone can be an encourager.  Regardless of your age, job, position, or personality type, you can be encourager of others. 

This is another basic truth.  Yes, we all can do this and we need to be aware of our power to do so.

Two Ways to Encourage

Now, there are two tips or strategies to keep in mind in becoming an encourager of others.

First, everyone wants to know that they are not alone.  Sometimes we feel down and that we are the only person in the world dealing with a certain issue or problem.

It could be a mom or day whose not sure they’re doing the right thing with their kids.  Or perhaps our finances are tight and we can’t take the kind of vacation that our nighbors are taking.

Or perhaps it’s a teen, young or older adult, who is experiencing a real identity issue.  In these and many other situations, we can feel very alone.

So it is important for each of us to be alert to one another, to listen and to let those around us that we understand or that we are dealing with the same issue or that we’ve got other things that we are dealing with. 

Our sharing vulnerability in ways like this is an important way of encouragement. It gives hope to the other person.  It helps them know that they are not alone.

And the second tip or strategy to be an encourager is that everyone wants to know that they’ve got what it takes.  So we need to affirm the potential and strengths of one another.

Perhaps that’s all they need to hear to apply for nursing school or starting a project. Perhaps that’s what someone needs to redirect them in a way that will really suit their God-given abilities.

Yes, we need to let others know that we believe in them.  We encourage them by letting them know that they’ve got what it takes.

Jesus Encourages

Listen again Jesus’ words of encouragement in today’s Gospel.

He knows that things will be tough at times and that we and the disciples will need encouragment to keep growing and developing and moving on, so he uses the example of a little sparrow and says that God watches and cares and knows every take-off and landing that a sparrow does.

The conclusion is obvious: If God does that for a sparrow, won’t he do much more for you?  After all, we count for so much more.

Jesus even says that God is so close to us and knows us so well that even the hairs on your head are counted.  That may not be too difficult for God to do with some of us guys, but I think you get the piont.


Jesus is encouraging us because he knows we all need encouragement.  And today he wants you and me to single out just one person to whom you can be an ecourager just as he has been for you.

Daily HOMILY for June 22, 2017: Thursday in the 11th Week of Ordinary Time, Cycle A


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Thursday 11th Week OT
St. Mary’s Pylesville
June 22, 2017
BELONGING +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Ø  As children we may have asked: “Mommy am I adopted?”
Ø  It is the childhood need to belong, to be assured I’m part of this family
Ø  We are told that we’re the children of God and we inherit all that belongs to our Father
Ø  Yet, because we’re “adopted” children, we may think down deep we really do not belong
ASSURANCE +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Ø  For this reason, R Father gives us a Spirit of adoption, a Spirit that helps us relate 2R Father
Ø  As we mature in our faith, that Spirit brings us to greater and more profound simplicity and childlike trust
Ø  We grow up 2 relate 2R F as a child & able 2 cry “Abba”
Ø  Spirit gives us what we need 2 approach R Father & then J teaches us what 2 say in F’s presence
Jesus’ WORDS +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Ø  However, Jesus makes clear that R F loves us & knows what we need before we even ask, so, we should just ask
Ø  What might the “asking” look like?
Ø  Don’t have 2 write a letter 2 convince R F 2 hear
Ø  Don’t have 2 get God’s attention w/ words
Ø  We just need to connect with G’s loving gaze which is always upon us
Ø  “The gaze” is “the ask.” The “gaze” is enough
APPLICATION ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Ø  When we suffer in silence, the gaze from prayer is enough
Ø  When we are angry w/ God, the gaze from prayer is enough
Ø  When we’re hurting, the gaze from prayer is enough
Ø  And what the connection offers us is expressed in the very prayer Jesus teaches us. We receive:
o   bread each day
o   protection in temptation
o   forgiveness of our sins
Ø  And most importantly in our receiving each of these, we are then empowered to be daily bread, protection and forgiveness for others
CONCLUSION +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Ø  We have received a Spirit of adoption and we are children of a kind and loving Father
Ø  It is with those assurances, we are empowered to be brothers and sisters to others

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