Wednesday, November 15, 2017

HOMILY for November 12, 2017: 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time, Cycle A


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32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time, Cycle A
Private Baptism of Isabella Nason Rodriguez
Our Lady of Grace Church
November 12, 2017

The Hour Glass of Life
By (Rev. Msgr.) Nicholas P. Amato


Sand in an Hour Glass

There is a story about a little, four-year-old girl who lived near the beach.

She had a grandfather whom she loved very much.  Her grandfather had a collection of hourglasses and she liked to turn them upside down and watch the sand steadily sift through to the bottom.

Her grandfather once told her that the hourglasses reminded him that time was so very precious.  Well, this particular year, Christmas was coming.

With difficulty, this little girl’s mother told her that her Grandpa was in the hospital and was very sick.  He might even die.

The little girl asked what that meant.  And her mother explained that life was like one of Grandpa’s hourglasses and that Grandpa had very little time left.

Her mother suggested that she make a special Christmas gift that they could take to Grandpa.  So the little girl excitedly went to work on her gift.

When they got to the hospital, she gave her Grandpa a beautifully wrapped box.  He slowly unwrapped it and looked inside and just smiled.

He immediately understood.  His little granddaughter had filled the box with sand.

The Story of the Bridesmaids

Well, if it were only that easy!

If only we could extend our days by adding more sand to our hourglasses!  But, of course, we cannot!

Today’s parable of the bridesmaids addresses this very issue.  There are three important reminders that I see here.

1. Prepare

First, each of us must prepare for the moment when we will meet God face to face.

We must do this for ourselves.  No one can do it for us.

We are reminded of this in the refusal of the five wise bridesmaids to share their oil with the others.  This is not an issue of sharing.

Instead, it is about being prepared.  These bridesmaids did not share their oil because they could not share this kind of oil.

This is the oil of personal preparation, the oil of who we have become as persons in the course of our lives.  We can motivate and encourage one another, but ultimately each one of us must do this kind of preparation for ourselves.

2. Watch the Time

The second lesson is that our time is limited.

There are only so many grains of sand in the hour glass.  We see this in the inability of the five foolish bridesmaids to go and buy oil for themselves.

Obviously, it was midnight and the stores were closed.  And that is exactly the point: it was too late!

The moment had come, the groom and bride were arriving and there was no more time to prepare.  This will be true for each one of us at some moment.

So, we need to watch the time and be ready today.  We need to live as if today were our day to meet the Lord face to face.

3. Keep Our Lamps Lighted

And then the third lesson is that we must be about light.

Psalm 36 in the Old Testament praises God by saying: “In your light we see light.”  The idea is that we need to allow ourselves to be drawn into the light of God.

And then, with this light, we can see light in the world and bring light to one another.  “In your light we see light.”

We see this in the oil lamps that the bridesmaids are to keep burning brightly.  We are to be and to bring light in darkness.

This is a helpful way for understanding our role in promoting respect for human life.  We can lift up the wonder and preciousness of an infant, or tend the person who is homeless, or provide comfort to a person who is dying.

Theses are actions of light.  They are some of the ways of keeping our lamps burning brightly.

Conclusion

So, the grains of sand in the hour glass are a good reminder for us.

1.    We are to be prepared. 
2.    We are to watch the time because it is limited.

3.    And we are to be a light for the world around us. 

Wednesday, November 01, 2017

HOMILY for October 29, 2017: 30th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Cycle A

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30th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Cycle A
Terranova Hermitage
October 29, 2017


Learning to Love
By (Rev. Msgr.) Nicholas P. Amato


Learn to Love


Some years ago, I came across a book by a psychologist named Daniel Allender.

In the book, Doctor Allender tells about a conversation he had with a man named Tom.  They were sitting next to each other on an airplane and Daniel tells Tom that he is on his way to give a presentation about love and forgiveness.

Tom admits that we all need to be reminded of these things, but then he quickly focuses on his career.  Tom mentions that what pleases him most about his children is their intense focus on career and success.

Tom also mentions that his three children have been through a total of five divorces.  He has not seen some of his grandchildren for years.

Doctor Allender asks him if it might be important to teach his children how to love and maintain commitment.  Tom responds that he just figured that his children would learn this naturally, on their own.

Daniel Allender concludes that often we do not naturally know how to be loving persons.  We need to be taught and we need to teach our children how to love.

How to Love

This psychologist makes an excellent point in relation to today’s gospel.

Jesus gives us the two great commandments of love.  But the question is: how do we love?

How are we to love God and love one another?  This morning I want to offer some recommendations for the “how-to” of each of these commandments.

 

How to Love God


So, first, I think the primary way of loving God is by praying. 

Our coming to Mass, really giving ourselves to this and participating in it as best we can is an expression of our love for God.  Of course, we are also loving God by desiring to receive Communion and realizing that this is the heartbeat of our life. 

And then, we love God by praying privately, personally on our own.  Some kind of prayer every day, yes, some kind of prayer every day is a real expression of our love for God. 

It could be reading a short passage from the gospels and just letting that be with us through the day or it could be praying the rosary.  It could be speaking to God in our own words – maybe just thanking God for something or someone each day.

If you want some help with how to pray on your own, check with one of us priests or one of the deacons and we could offer some ideas.  So, weekly Mass and daily prayer – that’s a primary way for how to love God.

How to Love Others


And then, how are we to love one another?

On an interpersonal level, we need to approach relationships with the expectation that they take some work.  This is true of marriage, of parent-child relationships, and of friendship.

So, for example, we need to be willing to listen and try to understand the thoughts and feelings of others.  Sometimes we need to process our own thoughts and feelings silently before we speak and then express ourselves thoughtfully and not in an “in-your-face” way.

On an interpersonal level, this is something of how to love one another.  We also need to care for others on the bigger, of our society in general.

For example, to take a hot-button issue, we as a country need a sensible immigration policy.  I do not know what that policy should be, but we need a policy and we also need to do what we can to help others.

Look at the Lord’s words in the first reading.  He warns his people not to oppress aliens because you were once aliens yourselves.

The Lord concludes his statement by saying “I am compassionate” and he wants us to be compassionate.  So, we need to refrain from negative stereotyping people from Syria or Somalia or Mexico or wherever they come from.

We need to want to do what we can to help.  This is also part of how to love one another.

Conclusion

So, an important theme today and I hope these “how-to-love” ideas are of some