Sunday, April 14, 2013

Weekly HOMILY for April 14, 2013: 3rd Sunday of Easter, Cycle C -- Rebuilding Trust

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3rd Sunday of Easter, Cycle C
Terranuova Hermitage
April 14, 2013

Rebuilding Trust
By (Rev. Msgr.) Nicholas P. Amato

 

The Car Keys


A 17 year-old teenager named Bob really messed up one evening.

His mom and Dad let him use the car on a Saturday night to take his girlfriend to the movies.  Unfortunately, things got a bit out of hand.

On the way to the movies, Bob and his girlfriend picked up a couple of other friends.  Bob was talking, not paying enough attention to his driving, and ran a stoplight.

A policeman pulled him over.  And beyond the red light issue, an open beer can – not Bob’s, but one of his friend’s – was found in the back seat. 

Bob’s parents were called and came to the scene.  Without a word, he sheepishly handed over the car keys to Mom and Dad. He didn’t expect to see them again for a long time.

Two days later, Mom asked Bob if he could take his grandmother to her doctor’s appointment after school.  She handed Bob the car keys.

Bob took his grandmother to the appointment and even on some other errands.  He returned home and … handed the keys back to Mom.

Later that week, Mom was delayed at work.  She called Bob and asked him to pick up some things for dinner.

Bob took the extra set of car keys from the kitchen drawer and headed out to ShopRite.  On the way he got a call on his cell phone from some of his friends who were asking him to go the mall with them.

Bob said no and just proceeded to the supermarket.  He came home, unpacked the grocery bags on the kitchen counter, and again, put the car keys back in the kitchen drawer.

The following Saturday, Bob’s father asked him to go over to Home Depot to get some mulch.  Dad tossed the car keys to Bob and he headed out.

An hour later Bob came home and helped his father with the yard work.  When they stopped for some lunch, Bob, once again, handed the car keys back to his father, but this time, something very different happened.

His Dad, said very matter-of-factly, “No, son, you hold on to them.”

Jesus and Peter


Bob’s Mom and Dad understood that they must hold their son accountable for what he had done, but they also gave Bob a chance to restore their trust in him.  They wanted the relationship to be restored.

This is what Jesus does with Peter in today’s gospel.  Jesus knows that Peter denied him three times during his passion.

Nor has Peter hasn’t forgotten this either.  So, Jesus asks Peter three times, “Do you love me?” 

Jesus does not taunt Peter or put him down or offensively get in his face.  He just gives Peter the chance to respond positively.

Peter does this and the relationship gets restored.  In fact, Jesus entrusts Peter with great responsibility – to feed his lambs and his sheep, in other words, to succeed him as shepherd.
      

Our Relationships


Many of us have had similar experiences. We have had our trust broken in a relationship.  We have been disappointed.

This happens between friends, between spouses, between parents and children, between an employers and employees. 

The example of Jesus and of Bob’s parents is helpful for us.

We are not to brush the breach of trust under the carpet.  We are not to pretend that it didn’t happen.

We are to deal with the issue and deal with it as respectfully as we can.  And we are to make concrete attempts to give the other person the chance to respond over time and regain our trust.

Conclusion

This can happen with actions – as with Bob and his parents.  And it can happen with words – as with Peter and Jesus.

It is challenging, and sometimes very difficult, because of hurt or raw feelings, but this chance of restoration of trust is what Jesus calls us to today.

There must be at least one relationship we have that calls for that kind of rebuilding.

Daily HOMILY for April 10, 2013: Wednesday of 2nd Easter, Cycle C

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St. Luke’s Institute
Wed of Second Easter
April 10, 2013
HOUSE RESTORING ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Ø  “For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world might be saved through him” John 3: 16-21
Ø  Many homeowners are committed to concepts of recycling, restoring, and "repurposing"
Ø  Rather than throwing out & buying new things, efforts made to "repurpose" old & used
Ø  New paint, new fabrics, new appointments give 2nd life to old chair that may have old design but solid
Ø  Become < aware of need 2 recycle 4 good of environment: metals, wood, plastics, slated 4 landfills R reused in new products & furnishings
RESTORING RELATIONSHIPS +++++++++++++++++++++
Ø  In Gospel, J speaks of G's relationship w/ us as one of "restoration" – God disposes of no one
Ø  God does not seek destruction of those who fail 2 realize G's dream of humanity that mirrors his love
Ø  God always seeks reconciliation w/ his sons & daughters, to "restore" us to love, to "repurpose" us 2 lives of meaning & fulfillment
Ø  W/ Nicodemus, J speaks of God as loving Father who created us & world out of love & seeks to restore his creation thru even greater act of love
Ø  God's becoming human so beloved humanity might realize God's dream of becoming holy & sacred
Ø  Despite our lack of confidence in things holy, despite our obtuseness to the things of God, God is not satisfied w/ our struggling & dying in junk heap
Ø  Instead comes in person of Christ that we may become people God created us to be
RESTORING THROUGH RECONCILIATION +++++++++++
Ø  God is seeking to restore us to loving relationship right now, to heal brokenness in own relationships w/ 1 another
Ø  May we respond 2 reconciliation & become means 4 re-creating existences of isolation & fear into lives of new meaning & purpose
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Daily HOMILY for April 9, 2013: Tuesday of 2nd Easter, Cycle C

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St. Luke’s Institute
Tuesday of 2nd Easter
April 9, 2013
SPRING WINDS ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Ø  "The wind blows where it wills, and you can hear the sound it makes, but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes; so it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit."
Ø  Words in John’s gospel are so apropos to us seasonably
Ø  In April, spring gets the upper hand; winter starts to lose its dark, cold grip on surroundings & spirits
Ø  Unlike the cold blasts of winter, spring wind carries with it a perceptible warmth, a taste of summer
Ø  A great day when you can open doors & windows & let the spring breeze sweep through our house
Ø  There's a freshness in the cool air that reinvigorates, that cleanses, that lightens.
RUAH / PENUMA ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Ø  The warm breezes we feel this time of year mirror the Spirit that Jesus speaks of in today's Gospel
Ø  Jesus urges us to let the Spirit of God "blow" through our lives
Ø  Word spirit comes from Hebrew word "ruah"& and Greek word "penuma," both mean "wind" or "air"
LET IT BLOW THRU ME +++++++++++++++++++++++++
Ø  Don't be afraid to open doors & windows of life & let the "ruah" & "pneuma" of God blow through
Ø  Let Spirit of God's reconciling "warm" relationships that’ve been long shuttered in winter isolation
Ø  Let Spirit of God's peace "clean" our souls & spirits of exhaustion & brokenness of the hard cold
Ø  Let the Spirit of God's compassion reinvigorate our lives and the lives of those we love in Easter joy
LET IT BLOW THRU MY COMMUNITY ++++++++++++++
Ø  May God’s Spirit "blow" through SLI, our homes and hearts during this Easter springtime
Ø  Wash away the dirt & grime that have accumulated in our winter half-truths & exaggerations
Ø  Refresh us w/ the warmth of God’s love & peace
Ø  May it lift us up out of our Good Friday tombs of resentment & hurt into warm light of Risen Lord
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